This is my first pregnancy in SL, and in RL; who the hell knew that there would be pregnant drama….

I logged into a fashion group I belong to, which I consider to be The Fashionista group to be apart of in SL, and asked if anyone could recommend a maternity clothing store, or if anyone had a store, that worked well with a pregnant shape.

Well who the hell knew instant drama…People not the regulars…were all in a tizzy, ragging on pregnancy in Second Life, children avi’s, etc. Whoah… note to self, never ask any alternative life style questions in Second Life to public groups… Then I thought I am in f**king SL, not a Republican National Convention.

 I mean come on, we all have choices here right, and when does someone have the right to tell you your lifestyle in Second Life of all places is ludicrous. Um, hello I made my own pregnant shape. Yes I am totally giving in to the having a baby experience, because it is a experience that I would love to have here, and it is very special to my family here.  Different things become important at different times in your life.

I basically experienced Group Chat beat down. It totally caught me off guard.
I used to be a hater…of all activities in SL which mimic Real life.

I used to never understand why anyone would partner in SL; I used to never understand why people played Gor; I never understood why people wanted to get pregnant; etc…

Here is the deal…no I am not a freak, nor do I spend from sun up to sun down on Second Life.

I just think that you should explore every facet of Second Life, whether you think its ridiculous or not. I promise you, it is surprising what you will find and oh the wonderful people you will meet and the places you will go.

Having a closed mind does not making you super cool, instead it limits your fun in Second Life.

Hey we are all here as a an escape from Real Life, a chance to take a little mini SL vacation. So why limit yourself…

Instead I ask you to challenge yourself.

If you want to have a baby…have one. If you want to be a permanent two year old be one. If you want to experience life as  a vamp, neko, etc…Do it.If you want to spend a thousand and more lindens on a pair of pixel stilletto’s Do it… Life is too short in RL and in SL, too not take chances.

Hey we are all a little bit crazy especially here, so give in and indulge.

Live, Laugh, Love, Don’t Judge.

Trust me drama will find you whether you are sitting in your pristine home, or romancing a furry. Drama is apart of life, though it might be just a tad more interesting if you Let Go.

Drama tip of the day:  Don’t be afraid of calling the kettle Black, and look damn sexy (even if you are three months pregnant) when doing so.

The Looks

Look 1

Animation-[LAP]

Skin- Glance, Chanel

Flip Flops-[SC] Surf Couture, wonderful for summer affordable casual wear, great quality, and if you are used to couture, it is a nice comfortable break when the weather is hot

Swimsuit: *SHAI*

Ring: Blackhea000 Korobase (the ooo’s are Zero’s custom designs)

Look 2

animation -Z & S Zeb and Sebastian

Lingerie- generous freebie from Glitch

Hair-Lelutka, a fashionista must

Shoes- Tesla, and yes I do wear these like every other day…they go with everything.

Look 3

Animation- Z&S

Skin – Glance Chanel

Hair-ETD

Avantegarde Eyeshadow-Glow Studio

Outfit – Baiastice, awesomely crafted

Earrings- PC

Bracelet-Dela

Look 4

Animation- Z&S

Skin-Glance

Top-Kyoot

Bottom’s- &Bean, one of the nicest creators out there

Hair- Cake

Boots- Bax

 AvantgardeEyeshadow- Glow Studio, omg…Iwear this item like everyday, freakin fabulos and you can change the color, and can wear regular lashes with it…beyond superb.